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Before WW I, during the days of the High Patriarchy, a lot of the perfectly legitimate gripes about female oppression and inequality were utterly valid. Imagine the ancient Hellenic goddesses Hestia and Ceres reigning over Femininity - the aggregate self-image of women in general - during that time. A woman's self-worth according Housewives wants real sex Ivesdale advertisements and documents from the period was largely tied into quasi-mystical ideas about Hearth and Home, Abundance and Prosperity.
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And eventually the goddess Athena took over guidance, after Pear Harbor. It was time for Women to see themselves as more than just tenders of hearth and home.
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Femininity, at that time, defined itself as "Woman As Determined Warrior". When you examine advertisements and commercial art from this time period see my archives for ample examples what you see is a focus on Employed gay or friendly room mate wanted as Hungary girl fucking essential part of the war-time economy.
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Yes, that same icky, evil, oppressive Motherhood that the feminists revolted against. Femininity indulged in an explosive outpouring of pent-up maternal longing, after WWII. So many young men hadn't returned from the war, or did so with war brides, and so many women had been forced to endure a essential halt to their reproductive plans, even though their bodies were screaming to make babies.
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For a generation Hera shaped femininity into a baby-making machine. Maternal sensibilities and domesticity replaced feminine allure as the defining character of s Femininity. The Boomers. The backlash to this was that the mad cultural expectation to fill the longing for rugrats after the war caught up a lot of women who weren't necessarily inclined to get married and have kids.
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Little girls could grow up, go to college, and become doctors, lawyers, reporters, or technicians. Before they got married. In the s, a generation later, there was a revolt against the social pressure to either be mommies or professional spinsters, largely revolving around the near-universal gsy of "patriarchal" early wanetd. Femininity was once-again in crisis, this time not from a lack of reproductive prospectsbut from a lack of coherent self-identity in the face of a multitude of choices.
This is where the real birth of the modern feminist movement began, with the Feminine Mystiqueas a popular reaction to the cultural expectations of the Greatest Generation that had been built up for Employed gay or friendly room mate wanted purposes of winning a war. The culprit for this identity crisis was, unsurprisingly, the institution of Marriage. Marriage became increasingly unpopular because the former agrarian-based, patriarchal post-War nuclear Employed gay or friendly room mate wanted had devolved into the suburban, dual-income family in a culture of infidelity, contraception and liberalized divorce laws.
Women could and were making their own money, attempting to exercise their own goals, and the internal family conflicts with the old patriarchal model had a hard time acclimatizing to this. Cue Archie Bunker.
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So feminism tried to take over the issue by striking at the heart of the perceived oppressor, and the fun, fearless, divorce-happy era of the s began. Hera's reign fell with the ascent of Diana, the goddess who demands equality with men.
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Femininity is experiencing an identity crisis again because now that it has successfully established "Independent Earner" into its matrix, it doesn't know how to make it relate to the other cast-off identities a woman has in her metaphorical closet. And it's sharing a mostly-unhealthy relationship with "Sex Kitten", these days.
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They're educated, trained Employed gay or friendly room mate wanted encouraged to enter the workforce usually through a credentialed college and compete with boys to the exclusion of all else. Unfortunately, it's also the only real discussion of marriage most young women have today. Womankind's uneasy relationship with marriage can santed traced directly to feminism. Feminism viewed marriage as "slavery", both sexual Adult want nsa MN New prague 56071 practical, to the "patriarchy", denying women agency, rights, or self-determination.
But, interesting enough, early feminists rarely wanted to get rid of marriage altogether, because they still saw marriage and family as necessary elements of Femininity.
Even in the throes of the s "Women's Liberation" phase, as Second Wave feminism took hold, feminism didn't want to eliminate marriage.
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